When someone breaks up with you it can feel as though the world is ending. You still want to be with them and are looking for a way to make them love you again. Don't worry it can be done. The Magic of Making Up gives you all the information you need to get your ex back.
Usually when someone breaks up with you, your first instinct is to do whatever it takes to get them back. And this often includes calling or texting them constantly, begging and pleading, crying and being depressed and so on.
Except this is exactly the wrong thing to do! I mean, would you want to get together with someone who acted like that? Of course not! And neither does your ex! In fact this kind of behavior will only drive them further away. Which is the last thing you want to do.
Unfortunately, most of the things you need to do to get back your ex aren't the things that you instinctively want to do. That is why you want some help.
For instance, in The Magic of Making Up, you learn that one of the first things that you should do when someone breaks up with you is to AGREE with them. As is “you're right, I've been thinking about us a lot and I think that this will be for the best.”
While this seems like the wrong thing to do, you get them thinking about you and why you would possibly want to break up. It also helps to trigger the “want what I can't have” impulse.
Now if you didn't react quite this well when they broke up with you, don't worry. You can still fix it. All you need is a little hand written letter. And The Magic of Making Up will tell you exactly what to say!
And that's not all. After you learn exactly how to get your ex back, you also learn how to keep them.
For instance, did you know that men and women 'keep score' differently. Women tend to complain that their men never do anything for them and men follow with “what do you mean, I just sent you roses last month!”
That's because no one is keeping track the same way. Women tend to want lots of little things that show how much he loves you, like notes, hugs... But men don't pay any attention to stuff like that. They think in bigger terms. So when men send flowers they think that they have racked up a lot of points and are good for awhile. And women do lots of little things that they think earn them lots of points over time.
But men couldn't care less about the little things, they forget them almost right away. The tickets for the big game however, they'll remember for a long time.
And women will be saying “what have you done for me lately?” because they want little things frequently.
Do you see how learning this kind of stuff can help you keep your loved one satisfied. By learning their rules, you play their game in a way that they understand and appreciate. This kind of stuff is priceless.
That's why The Magic of Making Up is worth any price, but a steal at the asking price. The stuff you learn has the power to make any relationship better, not just the one with your significant other. Knowledge like this should be required reading. It would significantly cut down on the drama (the bad kind anyway) of life.
Do yourself a favor and get a copy of The Magic of Making Up. You will be so glad that you did!
